Another thing that I like about Ginny is that.
When I send her songs.
She actually listens to them.
She pays attention and remembers everything.
Even I don’t remember the things I’ve said sometimes.
But she remembers them.
And asks questions when we meet.
This quality is so fucking attractive.
Men/friends in my life have never done this.
They are always so busy talking about their shit and dumping their shit.
They don’t listen or ask questions.
They don’t pay attention.
They never listen to the songs that I send.
But Ginny did.
That’s how I knew she was different.
Sharing music is my love language.
Because I LOVE MUSIC.
There are a million other little things about her that makes me say “fuck yessss“.
When Neethu was calling my moles unattractive.
And asking me to get them removed 5-6 times.
I said it to Ginny.
That’s when she called my moles beautiful and asked me not to remove them.
She healed a lifelong trauma in a second.
Because I have hated my moles my whole life until that second.
Now I love them.