I started speaking to Teni Thomas in December.
I already told you about him.
Please refer to below.
I should not have.
Considering his behaviour so far.
But then I felt, people change people grow.
Huge mistake.
Initially he gaslighted me intentionally.
I stated my boundaries and he lashed out.
Which is emotional immaturity.
But I stated my intentions of being a friend.
He wanted to be friends and said he won’t cross my boundaries.
So yeah.
We started speaking.
We spoke for a while.
He started telling me his problems.
About his wife and how he prefers working even if he is not busy.
To avoid the people at home.
And he wishes he was not married.
For which I asked him if he wants advice or he just wants me to listen.
He wanted advice.
So when I started giving it.
He stopped me and said it’s not helping him.
But it was clearly helping him.
Because he was repeating my words the next day.
Meaning.
He didn’t want to take advice from me because it was hurting his male ego.
Anyway.
I let it go.
He was rude while stating it.
I didn’t take it personally because I just felt he had his issues and respected his boundaries and let it slide.
We continued speaking.
I told him I like him as a friend.
Because he was nice to speak to initially.
TO BE CONTINUED.
Toxic friends (continued)
Joke of the day.