Note.

Later.

Shit started.

He is always working 247.

So I started telling him about how he should take care of himself and work life balance.

Because friends help each other grow.

I also asked him about his issues with his wife with the intention of helping him mend the relationship.

But he kept shutting me off and he was rude.

Which I ignored again and let it slide.

Because I felt it makes sense.

He doesn’t want to speak about his personal life.

I respect that.

The reason being he doesn’t want to take advice from me.

Because it will hurt his male ego.

Whatever it is.

That’s fine.

I let it go.

We continued speaking.

So yeah.

One day he was sexting someone in the night.

He sent it in the wrong window. (my chat)

He immediately unsent it.

I asked him about it.

He said he is sexting someone.

I didn’t judge initially because I don’t know the whole story.

Anyway.

He sexts women at night almost everyday.

His colleagues and friends.

I like to believe there’s always two sides to the story even when it comes to infidelity.

I kept asking him questions trying to understand what was happening.

With an intention to help him.

Also to mend things with his wife.

I don’t personally like his wife and inlaws because of the way they treated my family.

But I don’t hate them.

So I tried to help.

He kept getting angry when I asked questions.

And asked me to stop invading in his life.

So I stopped.

But it was downhill from there.

TO BE CONTINUED.