Note.

My close circle is sacred.

It’s a temple of trust and safety.

People in my close circle are in my close circle for a reason.

I’m happy and content with my life.

I’m not looking for anything from anyone.

I’m not interested.

Just because someone is a creepy fan and desperate to be my friend.

I cannot comply.

Half the population are jokers in a white cardigan.

Some people have extreme cases of para social relationships with me.

I don’t trust easily.

I’m not interested.

Just because I’m not interested in engaging with predators, piranhas, parasites and flesh eating vultures.

Does not make me a lone wolf.

Who I want to be friends with is my choice and my choice only.

Based on my personal first hand experience with them.

Because this is my life.

So it’s my decision.

And my decision alone.

I’ve had an extremely social life.

I’ve spoken to and texted countless people.

I don’t use the word friend loosely.

Trying to be friends with someone and actually being friends.

Are two different things.

A friend is a valuable word.

It requires connection, rapport, trust, safety, shared experiences, actions that align with words.

Etc.

I’m not signing a contract with anyone to be best friends forever.

If someone cannot treat me right.

They can go.

And I will be revoking access.

Millions of people in this world.

Everyone is not for everyone and that’s completely okay.

Just because I’m not interested in being friends with someone.

Or someone is not interested in being friends with me.

It’s not betrayal.

They are not my enemy.

I wish them well from a distance.

God bless them.