I’ve said it before saying it again.
The dynamics of a relationship/friendship keeps changing based on the behaviour and actions of the people involved.
If someone is not treating you right and with respect.
Adding value and peace to your life.
You are allowed to revoke access.
And disengage/block/unfollow/delete.
Unapologetically and without guilt.
You are not signing a contract with anyone to stay forever.
It’s okay to dislike and hate people.
It doesn’t make you a villain unless you do them dirty.
Millions of people in this world.
Everyone is not for everyone.
That’s completely okay.
When someone doesn’t want to be your friend or in a relationship with you.
It is not betrayal and they are not your enemy.
It does not make them a villain.
Unless and until someone does you dirty.
It is not betrayal.
We feel what we feel.
You cannot force feelings.
Also.
Trauma bonding and love bombing doesn’t apply in all cases.
It’s subjective.
Some people are lonely sex addicts.
They lack social skills.
Like social experiences and interactions.
And some people have sparkly golden retriever energy and personality.
When these two people meet.
It’s not going to end well.
rachana rajan <3 