Some people have extreme cases of para social relationships with me.
They don’t understand a NO.
No matter how many times I say NO.
You can clearly understand this from the behaviour of the aggressive stalker and Dudley’s father.
No matter how many times I said NO.
They kept harassing and assaulting me.
It’s the same with Pettigrew.
No matter how many times I was pushing her.
She wasn’t stopping.
She was not taking no for an answer.
No matter how many times I declined her invitation to go to her house.
She was not stopping and kept forcing.
She asked me to go to her house 8 times and kept moaning.
Again and again and again.
Just because I was regular to that restaurant and I was alone.
It is not an invitation for the staff to encroach on my boundaries and personal space.
This is not a college party for her to approach me because I’m a familiar face.
When someone is saying no.
And drawing a clear verbal/non-verbal boundary.
You are supposed to stay away.