Note.

Some people have extreme cases of para social relationships with me.

They don’t understand a NO.

No matter how many times I say NO.


You can clearly understand this from the behaviour of the aggressive stalker and Dudley’s father.

No matter how many times I said NO.

They kept harassing and assaulting me.


It’s the same with Pettigrew.

No matter how many times I was pushing her.

She wasn’t stopping.

She was not taking no for an answer.

No matter how many times I declined her invitation to go to her house.

She was not stopping and kept forcing.

She asked me to go to her house 8 times and kept moaning.

Again and again and again.


Just because I was regular to that restaurant and I was alone.

It is not an invitation for the staff to encroach on my boundaries and personal space.

This is not a college party for her to approach me because I’m a familiar face.

When someone is saying no.

And drawing a clear verbal/non-verbal boundary.

You are supposed to stay away.