Note.

I’m not supporting men.

I’m not supporting women either.

I always address things from a neutral standpoint.

To quote Bella, “I’m switzerland”.


I’ve dealt with a lot of two face bitches and incel patriarchal assholes.

So I hate both genders equally.

I like both genders as well because I’ve been lucky to meet some amazing men and women.

One can feel two things at the same time.

It’s more like a love hate situation.

Anyway.


I believe no matter how bad the situation might seem,

there’s always two sides to the story.

Even in cheating.

I don’t know why people cheat.

I have no idea.


I’ve read about it in books.

Sometimes in books we root for the person who cheats because we know their story.

For example in the book stoner.

(I haven’t read the book but I’ve read Jack Edwards’ review which is as good as reading it.)

There are also instances where we forgive the person who cheats in the book when we understand the why.

Like in Magnolia Parks the long way home.

And Love and other words.

etc.

Sometimes the person was just young and stupid.

Like in folklore.

But sometimes it’s because the person is an asshole.

So yeah.


That’s why I said, ask their side of the story.

Not because I was a side chick. (ouch.)

Or because I’m trying to get the male attention.

The things I hear online, my god.