Whatever Pettigrew did is called coercion.
I haven’t expressed any interest in her.
I had uploaded a picture on my Instagram for Ginny saying “take me home”.
That’s why she was constantly forcing me to go to her house.
She had an extreme case of para social relationship with me.
The only thing I asked her to do was take my picture.
She stuck to me like a parasite and leech.
She was lusting on me since day one and followed me to my place and started forcing.
She started forcing me to go to her house since day two.
She was lusting, projecting, forcing and seeing everything in that light.
And placing sexual meaning to everything.
She was forcing me because I’m openly bisexual.
I was constantly pushing her since day one.
Because her energy was off.
I was constantly drawing non verbal boundaries.
She was not taking no for an answer.
She was constantly forcing.
When she forcefully gave me something to eat when I was hungry.
I returned the favor.
She was desperate to meet me.
So I asked her to join me 2-3 times when I was stepping out.
Out of courtesy.
A normal person asks 2-3 times and stops.
Unless it’s your best friend or boyfriend, no one asks more than that.
When someone calls you home and you decline their invitation once or twice.
A normal person will stop asking.
She was forcing me again and again and again.
She would force and keep moaning.
She asked me 8 times.
Once I understood her true colours and true intentions.
I cut her off.
When I was not complying with her pathological force.
She started behaving sadistic and punishing me.
She wasn’t understanding my non verbal boundaries.
So I said it verbally.
I ended things peacefully.
When I rejected her.
She spread slander.
She approached me even after that.
When things worked out for me.
She attacked me because of jealousy.
She wanted an upper hand in the conversation.
She didn’t want to accept the fact that she’s a creepy fan.
When I drew a healthy boundary and said “I don’t want to speak to you right now”.
She lost that upper hand.
So she sent two waiters to attack me.
To maintain that upper hand.
I couldn’t understand what exactly happened.
I called her after going home.
She kept gaslighting me intentionally till I kept the phone.
I was sexually assaulted.
So I complained to the manager.
The restaurant gave me a card and forced me to speak to her.
So I complained to the ops manager.
When she got caught.
She put the blame on me because I’m openly bisexual.
She took things out of context and exaggerated it and made it into sexual assault.
She played the victim card.
And faked undying affection.
She omitted all her shady actions and behaviour.
She texted me saying “Sorry, I’ll lose my job”.
I said, “You betrayed me, please stop texting me”.
I felt sorry for her because she’s from the weaker section of the society.
She had just gotten a promotion.
I didn’t want her to lose her job.
So I was keeping quiet to help her.
I couldn’t understand why I was being sexually assaulted in August 2024.
I kept repeating.
“I’m not interested in women IRL.
Please ask me what happened”
Again and again and again.
People ganged up and started torturing me and tried to kill me.
I understood she betrayed me in October 2024.
That’s when I spoke the complete truth.
And proved it.
rachana rajan <3 