Anyway.
Because of this reason.
Jasmine chechi used to text me and say things like.
If I wanted her daughter’s clothes.
Her daughter is 2 decades younger than me btw.
She was doing exactly what Dudley’s mother was doing.
Jasmine chechi and I have no relationship.
We are cousins.
But we have never really had an open one on one conversation till now.
We texted each other briefly when I was in college.
After that she ghosted me.
She sends me a “happy birthday” message on my birthday every year.
But whenever I try to initiate conversation.
There would be no reply.
We had no relationship.
And she would complain to mother that I don’t talk to her.