I’ve had an extremely social life.
I’ve spoken to and texted countless people.
When I don’t want to speak to someone.
I delete their number and unfollow/block.
And they get the message.
They stop speaking after that.
This is an extremely clear non verbal boundary.
When someone calls you home.
And you ignore their words and change the topic.
No one will ask again.
This is an extremely clear non verbal boundary.
It was not written on her forehead that she’s bisexual.
I didn’t understand what she was doing at first.
I thought she was desperate to be my friend.
She started forcing and moaning.
She wasn’t taking no for an answer.
That’s when I understood what was happening.
After that I cut her off.
These things are clear non verbal NO and a boundary.
Everyone gets it.
But she wasn’t stopping.
I tried being friends briefly.
Also. I returned the favor and asked her to join me when I was stepping out 2-3 times.
I didn’t verbally dismiss her whenever she approached me.
That’s why she is using the word friend.
But this isn’t friendship.
She was constantly forcing these things.
She was forcing the friendship.
I’ve had an extremely social life.
I’ve spoken to and texted countless people.
I don’t use the friend loosely.
Whatever happened between us doesn’t meet my definition of friendship.
There was no friendship.
This is not friendship.
You can clearly understand from her actions that there was no friendship.
This is not how friends behave.
Her definition of friendship is different from my definition of friendship.
rachana rajan <3 