I called her once more.
It was a very short call.
She asked me where I live and I said my apartment name.
After that I deleted her number.
Because I wasn’t interested in being friends.
Her energy was completely off.
She approached me again.
Even after I deleted her number.
She asked my Instagram and waited for me to follow her.
I followed her and she left.
I immediately unfollowed.
Her energy was completely off.
She kept approaching me even after that.
I didn’t know how to dismiss a person who is constantly approaching me.
Even after being extremely clear that I’m not interested.
I was constantly drawing non verbal boundaries.
I was constantly pushing her.
She approached me 2-3 times and started cribbing about her job each time.
I didn’t respond properly.
I didn’t speak at all.
One day when I went there.
I had uploaded a picture at that restaurant.
I immediately got a call from an unknown number.
When I picked it up it was her.
She asked if I was at the restaurant.
I said, yes.
She said, come to my house and started moaning.
I ignored her and said what.
She said, “Today is my day off. Wait for me I’m coming there. I want to tell you something”.
She came to the restaurant after 10 minutes and approached me.
She said.
“I’m getting promoted. I’m going for an interview”
I said, “Good luck.”
After that she left.
She approached me again.
She was wearing a new uniform.
She was constantly cribbing about her uniform since day 2.
She used to wear men’s uniform with a stain on it.
So I complimented the colour as a good gesture to empathize with her.
She started cribbing about the designer.
I didn’t know how to tell her that I’m not interested.
I was being extremely clear.
Because I had deleted her number and unfollowed her Instagram.
Which was a clear non verbal boundary.
I was constantly pushing her non verbally when she was approaching me.
I didn’t know how to dismiss her verbally.
I wasn’t interested at all.
The next time I went there.
I was listening to music and reading.
I saw her approaching but I didn’t remove my ear phones.
She stood there and waited.
She wasn’t budging.
I removed my headphones.
I said
“the matcha is good here.
Everything else is expensive.”
She said, yes.
After that she left.
TO BE CONTINUED.
rachana rajan <3 