Also.
When I was trying to be friends with her.
I complimented her display picture one time.
I do this with everyone.
All my friends do this too.
This is basic texting etiquette.
I texted her on Instagram once asking about what happened with her promotion.
Also.
When I asked her to join me on the phone when I was stepping out.
She said she was busy with work.
So I replied.
Let me know when you are off work.
I asked her 2-3 times.
This was the same script.
After that I stopped.
Unless it’s your best friend or boyfriend no one asks more than that.
This is called a plan.
Not promise.
After I cut her off.
I wrote on my blog.
She’s not my friend. I feel like I’m the one who is always putting in the effort.
So I’m not interested.
I wrote this 2 times.
I wrote this to make it clear that she’s not my friend.
I didn’t want to say her energy was off.
And she was constantly forcing me and I was suspicious that she’s bisexual.
Because she had just gotten a promotion.
I didn’t want her to lose her job.
I don’t speak against people from the weaker sections of society.
I don’t know if this was making her try harder.
I’m not sure.
Whatever it was.
These things are not enough for it to be called friendship.
Because we barely spoke.
There was nothing between us.
Whatever happened between us doesn’t meet my definition of friendship.
I’ve already given you my definition.
I’ve spoken to and texted countless people.
I’ve had an extremely social life.
I don’t use the word friend loosely.
I’ve had a much more profound connection with men whom I’ve casually dated.
I’m speaking the truth.
This is based on my knowledge, age, life experiences, understanding, maturity, social skills. etc.
Maybe she calls everyone whom she speaks to casually as her friend.
She’s speaking her truth based on her age, understanding, maturity, life experiences, social skills, knowledge. etc
For what it’s worth.
I used to do the same when I was her age.
Now I’m 35 years old.
I don’t use the word friend loosely.
The definition of friend varies from person to person.
It’s a noun.
It depends on the person and how they want to define it.
More than one truth can exist at the same time.
But there are also certain rules that are universally acknowledged.
(please refer below)
I’ve already given you my definition of the word friend.
I’ve already explained why she’s not my friend based on my definition of friendship.
You should ask her to define the word friend.
And ask her for an explanation for why she is calling me her friend.
Note.
rachana rajan <3 