I have a close-knit circle.
My close circle is sacred.
It’s a temple of trust and safety.
People in my close circle are in my close circle for a reason.
I’m happy and content with my life.
Whom I want to be friends with is my choice.
My choice only.
Based on my personal first hand experience with them.
Because this is my life.
So it’s my decision alone.
A friend is a valuable word.
It weighs in gold.
It takes a long time to use the word friend.
A very long time.
It requires connection, rapport, trust, safety, shared experiences, actions that align with words, respect.
Etc.
I’m not signing a contract with anyone to be best friends forever.
If there’s any kinda shady unethical behaviour.
I will be revoking access.
There’s a bouncer outside my door.
Evaluating and ready to kick people out.