Note.

I have a close-knit circle.

My close circle is sacred.

It’s a temple of trust and safety.

People in my close circle are in my close circle for a reason.

I’m happy and content with my life.


Whom I want to be friends with is my choice.

My choice only.

Based on my personal first hand experience with them.

Because this is my life.

So it’s my decision alone.


A friend is a valuable word.

It weighs in gold.

It takes a long time to use the word friend.

A very long time.

It requires connection, rapport, trust, safety, shared experiences, actions that align with words, respect.

Etc.


I’m not signing a contract with anyone to be best friends forever.

If there’s any kinda shady unethical behaviour.

I will be revoking access.

There’s a bouncer outside my door.

Evaluating and ready to kick people out.