Another thing about Teni Thomas is that.
He is in terrible need of therapy.
He needs to work on himself a lot.
But his ego doesn’t allow him to take advice from anyone.
Even if he badly needs it and he needs to fix his life.
That’s the reason therapy wasn’t working for him.
Because he doesn’t have it in him to listen to someone completely and patiently.
Or communicate whatever he is feeling entirely to someone.
He doesn’t have it in him to ask for help.
I think maybe he feels emasculated.
He would quote my advices and words on a regular basis.
But on a personal front he used to tell me I’m not good at giving advices.
He told me I’m not good at storytelling and poetry.
And he didn’t know I was a bard.
He said he hasn’t read anything I have written.
He said these things proactively without me bringing it up.
He intentionally started gaslighting me without context.
Because my success was making him feel inferior.
So he was intentionally and unnecessarily gaslighting me to downplay my value to exert false superiority.
Because of the reality that I’m existing in he has a leverage to do so.
That was the threshold.
And ultimate betrayal.
So I blocked him.
rachana rajan <3 