There was a random relative whom I was texting in 2021 and 2022.
Her name is Sanghamitra.
She is a relative from my brother-in-law’s side.
We would text casually sometimes.
We were not close.
Our conversations were always surface level.
We have never had an open one on one conversation.
When I came out as bisexual to her in 2022.
She said.
“I should have met you before meeting my husband”.
(She’s bisexual btw.)
I was not fucking interested.
I didn’t know how to reject her.
So I replied “lol”.
After that I stopped texting.
After that incident.
She started initiating texts and texting me more than usual.
She has never done that before.
She would send random pictures.
Even a picture showing her cleavage.
We honestly don’t have that kind of relationship/friendship.
We have never sent pictures to each other.
It started getting weird.
So I ghosted her.
She texted me again and again and again.
She wasn’t stopping at all.
No matter how many times I ghosted her messages.
In the end.
I couldn’t take it anymore.
So I said.
“You suffocate me. When someone doesn’t respond, you should stop texting them Sanghamitra”.
She got upset.
After that, I felt bad for saying that.
I texted her casually a few times.
Her values were fucked up.
She got married just for the sake of getting married without dating.
She started giving me unsolicited advices on marriage.
She said she posts pictures on Instagram to “brag and show off”.
That was the tip of the iceberg.
Our values don’t match.
So I blocked her.
rachana rajan <3 