I always keep it casual unless I feel a sense of connection and trust.
In friendships and also while dating.
My one leg is always outside the door.
Unless it’s a fuck yes.
That’s why I recommend putting yourself out there and dating/speaking to a bunch of people casually.
Also socialising casually.
Because the more experience you have in your bucket.
The easier it gets to disengage with the wrong people.
You will still get hurt.
But it will just be a minor temporary discomfort.
It won’t feel like the end of the world.
Also.
You won’t feel that predatory obsession and desperation towards anyone.
You will be laid back and chill.
I’m speaking from experience.
I’ve spoken to and texted countless people.
I’ve spoken to more than 250 men after I started dating.
And a bunch of women back in 2022.
I bounce back quickly always.
I don’t emotionally invest unless I’m in love.
Also I never have sex.
Because I don’t feel like it.
So yeah.
When I’m in love it’s a different story.
I don’t move on.
I’m the last man standing.
As you already know.
rachana rajan <3 