If you are insecure about how you look.
If you are on the heavier side, you have a dark complexion, you are extremely thin, you have acne, you have disfiguration, you are bald or anything of that sort.
Or if you are insecure about your job or financial status.
And you are constantly thinking about those things and consumed with it.
When you are speaking to people and socialising.
You start assuming and twisting their words and actions based on your insecurities and you project.
You automatically become unattractive.
Not because of the former reasons.
But because of your behaviour and actions based on those said reasons.
Even if you have those problems.
If you are confident in your own skin and you have an attractive personality.
You automatically become attractive.
Your imperfections and problems won’t have anything to do with your allure.
I hate the monster at social, Pettigrew, Varsha Vinod, Dudley etc.
Because of their character, behaviour and actions.
Not because of their job, financial status, looks. etc.
Hypothetically.
If Taylor Swift starts speaking to me tomorrow and she behaves like them.
I will hate Taylor Swift as well.
It’s your character that speaks for you.
Not these unnecessary irrelevant things.
rachana rajan <3 