I don’t feel good about saying whatever I’m saying about the old man in my apartment building.
No.
I don’t feel good about it.
I’m not that kind of person.
But you need to understand that.
He is handing me the pen and paper to write about him.
He needs to understand that.
Whatever he is doing is wrong.
We don’t have that kind of relationship/friendship.
He is just a random ass neighbour and a stalker.
We only spoke for 3 minutes in 2023.
We spoke for 3 minutes because he stalked me and forced that conversation.
I have not shared anything with this man.
He misbehaved with me the entire 3 minutes.
He even said he wanted me dead.
In August 2024.
Suddenly one day.
He started to aggressively stalk and harass me.
He started to pounce on me.
Violently and vigorously.
I witnessed mania and lust in his eyes.
Aggression and psychopathy on his face.
No matter how many times I said NO.
He did not stop.
This is 2026.
He is still not stopping.
I’ve been saying a clear NO and I’m not interested.
Since 2023.
This man is not stopping at all.
I was polite the first few times.
But after a point and repeated harassment and stalking.
Even a kind and polite person would lose it.
I clearly said this January itself.
If he is sorry, it’s acknowledged.
Please stay away.
He is still not stopping.
Even after clearly knowing what I’m going through in life.
Even after being extremely clear about how much his behaviour is affecting me.
This man is not stopping.
This is not love.
This man is not sorry.
Whatever he feels is a predatory obsession.
Whatever he is doing is extremely selfish, predatory and performative.
I think he is performing in front of the world.
He just wants the attention, glory and perks that come attached to me.
This kind of behaviour is not normal.
He lives in his own fantasy land.
This is extremely para social.
Whatever he feels is a predatory obsession.
It takes me more than one month to recover from each harassment incident.
Absolutely no action is taken against this person.
Even after highlighting something extremely serious.
That’s why he is not stopping.
Because he feels it’s okay to continue with the same things.
Because anyway, there’s no consequences.
I don’t understand how everyone is reading this on a regular basis and choosing to stay quiet.
I don’t know why no one in the apartment is asking this man to stop.
If the same things had happened to any other woman in this world.
He would be in jail.
People would have been ruthless.