After a while I texted her and asked her.
Why did she gaslight me intentionally and ask me about my job.
I said to her that I felt she was trying to cut me off.
By doing that.
Because I don’t know why she would intentionally and unnecessarily gaslight me like that.
Without the context of the conversation.
She started to gaslight me further intentionally.
I responded.
“If you are a friend.
Please behave like one.
I’m just asking you your intention, that’s it.
Because this is how I felt.”
Instead of responding to my message.
She gaslighted me further and stretched it.
She started saying.
If that particular topic is triggering for me.
She won’t bring it up.
She doesn’t know what’s triggering because we haven’t spoken for a long time.
No one knows you. etc etc.
She kept acting and stretching unnecessarily.
The conversation was going nowhere.
So I left it.
Later, I forgot about it.
I opened the chat recently.
I texted her.
“If you are a friend.
Please behave like one.
It’s not that hard.
I don’t know why you are acting.
The topic is not triggering.
But you gaslighting me intentionally and unnecessarily is what’s triggering me.
I don’t know why you are asking me these questions intentionally.”
I also said I responded after 3 months because I had too much on my plate.
I have nothing against you.
No hard feelings.
I wish you well either way.
God bless you.
Also. I don’t know where we stand in friendship.
Because you are flaky.
I don’t know when you will disappear again.
She responded this morning.
She said I’m being too dramatic.
She doesn’t have time for all this.
It is teenage behaviour to cause friction in conversation.
Adult conversations are supposed to be smooth.
She also said, it’s “not normal” to go deep in conversations.
I responded.
My reactions are normal to your actions and behaviour.
You are extremely flaky.
Disrespectful.
Fuck off.
After that I blocked her.
