The thing about Nikita Metha is that.
She feels conversations are supposed to always be smooth.
If there’s any friction, she bolts.
According to her.
That’s how adult conversations should be.
Otherwise it’s teenager behaviour.
But it’s actually the opposite.
Adult conversations are not always going to be smooth.
As adults we have to be vulnerable.
And repair when there is friction and conflict.
Not bolt.
Bolting at the first sign of friction is the actual teenager behaviour.
I don’t bolt when there is friction and conflict.
I bolt when there is disrespect.
Or when something feels off.
