Her energy was off since day one.
I was constantly pushing her since day one.
I was constantly drawing non-verbal boundaries.
I don’t know if she wasn’t understanding.
Or she didn’t want to understand.
Because she wasn’t stopping.
We barely spoke.
The only thing I spoke to her about was coffee, trees, laptop and the weather.
I asked her casual random questions.
I have not shared anything with her.
Because she’s not my friend.
She was forcing the friendship.
I was regular to that restaurant since 2021.
That’s where I met Ginny on our first date and we had our first kiss.
That’s why I was regular.
Also because it’s the only park in EC.
I love parks.
Even when I was staying in Indiranagar.
I was regular to the Indiranagar park.
I always sit at the corner table and cry.
I was always minding my own business.
Just because I was regular to that restaurant.
It is not an invitation for the staff to encroach on my personal space and boundaries.
And force friendship and force conversation with me.
This is not a college party for her to approach me because I’m a familiar face.
When someone is saying a clear no.
Drawing a clear verbal non-verbal boundary.
You are supposed to stay away.
