I tried explaining to mom.
All of us have gone through shit in the past.
Also no one is right/perfect in this house.
We all have done/said awful things to each other.
All 4 of us.
But whatever father did dominates.
Because his shit was physical violence.
And mom was on the receiving end.
Sister and I as well.
Me more than sister.
Mother more than both of us.
So yeah.
I said to mom that we cannot go back and change the past.
It cannot be undone.
Now they are old.
So at least now in the old age let go of the past and live a new life.
If we keep thinking about the past.
We cannot live life.
