Mom was also going through trauma responses.
Whatever father and his mom and sister said to mom is engrained in mom’s mind.
The trauma is so intense.
Because it was happening for many many years.
Father has changed drastically now.
Father’s mother is no more.
His sister is suffering.
But even now mom responds the same way.
Because of the intense trauma.
I told her it’s not happening anymore.
She is responding to the past trauma.
Try and be present.
Because it’s not happening now.
