Note.

The next time I went there after a few weeks.

When I ordered my food.

She came with the order.

I said thank you and continued reading.

She stood there waiting.

I looked up and said hi.

She asked if I go out often.

I said, yes.

She said, “text me on my number and call me whenever you go out”.

I had already made it clear non verbally that I wasn’t interested by deleting her number.

She kept looking at me and stood there waiting.

I said.

“I lost your number.”

She said.

“I thought you had my number.”

She gave me her number again.

I came back home and deleted it again.

Which is a clear non verbal boundary that I was not interested.

I completely forgot about the whole thing and her.


I was going to that restaurant regularly because it’s the only park in EC.

Also.

Because that was where I met Ginny for the first time and we had our first kiss.

I always sit at the corner table and cry.

I wanted to be alone.

The next time I went there.

She approached me again.

Even though I had made it clear that I wasn’t interested in engaging.

She started initiating conversation.

When I said I was hungry.

She gave me Pani Puri.

I said, “I don’t want it.”

She said, “please take it.”

After that she left.


TO BE CONTINUED.