I’ve said it before saying it again.
Most of the problems in this world are caused because of misunderstandings.
Misunderstandings are seen through the lens of insecurities and assumptions.
When you act on it.
You are projecting your insecurities and assumptions.
Don’t act on misunderstandings.
That’s why you should always ask questions.
Magic questions like.
What happened?
What do you mean?
Your social circle, the content you consume, your past experiences, trauma, social experiences, social conditioning.
Etc.
Influence the way you think and function.
This is what creates these insecurities and assumptions.
Everyone in this world is different.
We think differently.
We speak differently.
Everyone is unique.
No one person is like the other.
So whenever people communicate.
Sometimes we don’t sync and align.
Sometimes we won’t understand each other.
Even if we are speaking the same language.
If you want to make it work.
Asking questions opens doors and makes it easy.
But sometimes we just don’t work.
We are two pieces of puzzles that belong in two different boxes.
And that’s okay.
Millions of people in this world.
Everyone is not for everyone.
That’s completely okay.
Take a step back and move on with your life.
Find the puzzle pieces that belong in your particular box.
You are going to meet hundreds of people in your lifetime.
Learn to love from a distance.
You might face temporary discomfort.
It’ll pass.
It is a compatibility issue.
Not a value issue.
Don’t associate value into this equation.
rachana rajan <3 