(Please refer to the context below)
She accepted herself.
“I approach people and just start talking and call them friends.
I guess you don’t do that.”
This is her definition of friendship.
This isn’t called friendship.
This isn’t how you make friends.
It has to be mutual for it to be friendship.
It’s not called friendship when one person is constantly forcing it.
It’s not called friendship when it’s one sided, para social and unrequited.
When someone is clearly saying NO and I’m not interested.
Drawing a clear verbal non-verbal boundary.
You are supposed to stay away.
Just because I was regular to that restaurant.
It is not an invitation for the staff to encroach on my personal space and boundaries.
And force friendship and force conversation with me.
This is not a college party for her to approach me because I’m a familiar face.
Note.
Note.
rachana rajan <3 