If anyone from your past who treated you like shit.
Suddenly texts you and suddenly starts to force a non-existent relationship/friendship with you.
And says, “how are you?”
Like an angel as though nothing happened in the past.
Address the elephant first.
After that say, “I’m good how are you?”
If they disappear.
They never really cared about how you are.
Don’t be surprised.
If they make you the villain to anyone who listens after that.
They just wanted access to you.
Without the accountability and apology for their BS actions and behaviour.
And because you addressed the elephant.
Now suddenly you are the villain.