Anyone can be good during the honeymoon period of a relationship/friendship.
Anyone can be an angel when things are rosey and smooth.
Anyone can buy you flowers and expensive gifts.
Literally anyone.
That’s easy.
But what do they do when there is friction?
How do they handle problems, rejection, conflicts, failure, misunderstandings, betrayal, etc?
How do they react when you cry?
When you say NO?
How do they behave when they don’t get what they want?
The list goes on.
This is what really matters.
This is what tells you who they really are.
These are basic life skills.
Life is not a walk through a fresh sunflower meadow.
If you don’t have these basic life skills.
You aren’t qualified to get into a relationship.
Or even be a friend.
I said what I said.
