I’m exactly the same.
I talk about the men I have dated to all my friends/family.
(I used to in the past.)
Everyone knows the failed dating experiences.
But no one knows about Ginny and Will Newman.
The only two times I was actually in love.
Literally no one knows.
You can speak to everyone I know.
Some selected people who I’m close to know bits and pieces.
But no one knows the full story.
Because I’m secretive when it’s real.
I don’t share my personal life with anyone.
